I’m interested in using sex toys, but I don’t know where to start! What kinds are there to begin with? What are the different types?
There is a wide range of uses for sex toys, including those that are applied to the outside of the vagina, those that are inserted, and even those that are inserted into the anus. It would be nice to be able to use them in different ways depending on the use and situation.
In this section
- What is a sex toy?
- Types of sex toys
- Is it normal to use sex toys?
- How to choose sex toys
- What should I be careful about sex toys?
The following is a detailed introduction to the subject. There are a lot of sex toys out there, and I hope I can help you choose the right one for you.
What is an sex toys?
sex toys are items that are used during sex or masturbation to help you get more pleasure. There are many different types and uses.
For women, Vibrators and Magic Wand Vibrators are well known in India and you may have heard of them often. If you have a partner, you can discover new aspects of each other and prevent yourself from getting into a rut.
You can choose one for a woman to use alone, for a man to use alone, for a heterosexual couple or a homosexual couple, etc.
Let’s take a look at the different types of sex toys available.
‘Having great sex can promote health and wellbeing by improving your mood and physically making you feel good. Using a sex toy can spice up a flagging sex life and bring a bit of fun into your life. A sex toy will make you feel great as well as promoting your circulation and the release of the “feel good factors” during an orgasm.’
Types of sex toys
There are many types of sex toys, but here are some of the most popular
- Anal toys
- SM toys
- Cock rings
- Magic Wand Vibrators
- Sex Lubricant
- Love dolls
I’m going to explain in detail about 10 of them!
Anal refers to the hole in the buttocks, and anal play is the insertion of a toy or male organ. Major anal toys include anal beads, which are a series of balls, anal vibrators, which are vibrations that provide stimulation, and anal dildos, which are shaped like a man’s penis or are long, thin sticks.
Anal dildos come in the shape of male genitalia or as long, thin sticks. Butt plugs, as the name implies, act as plugs for the anal cavity, and are great for dilating the hole. Anal sex may seem difficult to develop, but it is not if you do it in the right order.
It is best to start with the fingers, then the toys, and finally the male organ. When inserting your fingers, use a special finger sack. A condom can be used instead.
Sex Lubricant is also a must. Unlike the vagina, it does not get wet and can be damaged if nothing is applied. It also helps with slipperiness and ease of penetration, so use it.
If you want to know more about anal development, click here.
If you’re looking for a new way to get the most out of your sex life, then you’ve come to the right place. It stands for sadism and masochism, and to explain it simply, sadism is the side that wants to inflict pain. Sadism is the side that wants to inflict pain, while masochism is the side that wants to be inflicted.
Several types of toys are readily available, such as eye masks, handcuffs, and collars. Eye masks can completely block out the other person’s vision, so the attacker can feel a sense of conquest. The person wearing the mask is also more sensitive because he or she cannot see, so each movement becomes a pleasant sensation.
Handcuffs can restrict the movements of the attacker, which also satisfies the desire for conquest. The person being cuffed is elated by the fact that he or she can’t move.
A collar can also give the wearer a sense of humiliation and the wearer a sense of control. It can be used in a variety of scenes, such as walk-around play and abandonment play. In this way, eye masks, handcuffs, collars, and other items used to restrain or be restrained are painless mental play, so you can easily start.
If you want to know more about SM, click here.
I’m not sure if you’re aware of which one you are. If you’re a sadist, you’re probably a masochist, and if you’re a masochist, you’re probably a sadist.
However, you don’t have to decide exactly which one you are from the beginning. You can change depending on what you play, or you can switch depending on your mood. And as you try out different types of play, you will become more sure of which one you are.
If you don’t know which one you are, or even if you know for sure which one you are, don’t start with the more difficult games, but gradually work your way up!
This is probably the first time you’ve heard of it. A cock ring is a ring that is attached to a man’s penis, sometimes to his scrotum. It is often used to temporarily stop the blood flow to improve erection or to play for a longer period.
The effect will vary depending on where you put it, but unless it is very serious, I recommend putting it at the base. If he has trouble with premature ejaculation and you want him to increase his size! If you have a problem with premature ejaculation and want to increase the size of your penis, please ask him to do so.
In addition to erection purposes, there are different types of condoms for different purposes, such as fashion or SM activities.
Condoms are an item that you may already be familiar with. It is a contraceptive device that is placed over the penis.
It is essential not only to avoid unwanted pregnancy but also to prevent sexually transmitted diseases, so it is important to know more about it. The most common types are latex rubber, polyurethane thin film, and isoprene rubber.
Latex is the most common material, and it is available in a wide range of thicknesses from 0.12 to 0.03 mm, depending on the product. It has a rubbery smell and may cause allergic reactions or painful intercourse in some people.
Polyurethane has a very thin lineup and is easy to feel. It does not smell, nor does it cause allergic reactions. However, they are less stretchy, harder to get used to, and more expensive.
Isoprene rubber has good elasticity, comes in many sizes, and is easy to wear. It is also easy to blend in and has no odour. The only drawback is that it is not available in stores. The only drawback is that it is not available in stores, and the only way to get it at the moment is online, and the price is relatively high.
In addition to the material, you should also pay attention to the function. There are condoms with warm and cold sensations, scented and flavoured condoms, and even condoms with gel.
Condoms can also serve as a supplement to oral sex for those who have difficulty wetting their vaginae, such as those with a warm sensation or gel, or those with a flavour for those who have trouble with oral sex.
I think both you and your partner will have different tastes in rubbers, so it’s fun to find a match. I don’t think soft and thin is good enough either. Try lots of them and find your favourite.
A dildo is a beam-shaped object that resembles a male organ. Many of them have suction cups, so you can fix them to the wall or floor to practice cowgirl or Doggy Style.
Many people may think that dildos are more difficult to use than the Vibrators and Egg Vibrators I’m about to introduce. However, dildos are relatively inexpensive and can be used for a wide range of purposes.
Many dildos are made to look and feel like the real thing, making them the perfect item for self-development when masturbating.
For those who are embarrassed to have a dildo that is too realistic, there are now many items that come in cute colours and are not recognizable as dildos at first glance, so please try to find one that you like.
The ones with harnesses can also be used as penis bands by women as a substitute for male genitalia. This can greatly meet the needs of lesbian couples and men who want to be attacked by women.
Masturbators are toys in the shape of female genitalia that men can insert their penis into to get pleasure. For women, the term may be a little unfamiliar.
However, for couples who are bored with regular sex, there is Masturbators sex, where the woman is encouraged to ejaculate using Masturbators. It’s a bit minor, but please keep it in mind, even if it’s brief, in case he wants to do it.
Masturbators come in many varieties, from those that look like a complete reproduction of a woman’s vagina to those that replicate a mouth that gives the sensation of being sucked off. Some disposable cups and pockets are not necessarily reusable, and these are relatively inexpensive.
Surprisingly, there is even an electric type that allows you to experience pseudo-sex. However, as they are not flesh and blood, they do not get wet naturally, so you will need a Sex Lubricant before using them.
To make it more like a flesh-and-blood person, you can heat it with hot water, or use a sex lubricant with a cold sensation function to increase the stimulation. If you are a woman, try using it in foreplay or alternating with blowjobs to increase the excitement.
Magic Wand Vibrators
Magic Wand Vibrators are arguably the most familiar toy to women. The most common type is a stick with a round head that contains a motor.
It is mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but some people have orgasms when it is applied to the entire genitals or the pubic bone.
Because they were originally used for home and medical purposes, they are large in size and stimulation. For this reason, it is recommended to start with weak vibrations applied over the underwear, and gradually increase the level of strong vibrations.
Some of them can be inserted by attaching them to the head part, making them suitable for a wide range of uses. It is also an item that can be easily used for masturbation and foreplay with your partner during sex.
The corded type can produce the strongest vibrations, but the range of use is limited, so there are also battery-powered and USB-charged types that are convenient to carry around. It is important to consider the strength of the vibrations, the pattern, and the size of the device to find the right one for you.
If you want to know more about the clitoris, click here.
Some of you may have used Sex Lubricant before. It is a slimy liquid that is mainly used during penetration. It is mainly used during penetration to make insertion smoother and to reduce friction. It can be a great help when natural moistening is difficult.
Not only does it enhance caressing, but it is also good to have when using toys, so there is no harm in having one.
Sex Lubricant is mainly divided into three categories: water-based, oil-based, and silicone-based. Each ingredient has its characteristics, so it is recommended to use different ones for different purposes.
The oil-based ones will melt rubber condoms, while the silicone-based ones will deform silicone toys. For beginners, water-based products are recommended as they are safe to use for all purposes.
Furthermore, when using it for insertion during sex, it is better to use Sex Lubricant, which is specially designed for insertion. Understand the features of each, and choose your Sex Lubricant safely!
Vibrators are mainly sex toys that resemble male genitalia and are inserted into the vagina to give pleasure through vibration. Unlike dildos, some vibrators have a piston (up and down motion) function and some have a swing (rotating motion) function.
Most of them are shaped like male genitalia, but like dildos, there are more and more stylish-looking ones nowadays, so it is not as difficult as it used to be.
There are also vibrators and other devices that specialize in making you cum inside, and if they hit the G-spot when you insert them, they are ideal for development. The G-spot can be used during masturbation or sex with a partner, making it a very useful item.
If you want to know more about the G-spot, click here.
There is also a type of Vibrators called Egg Vibrators, which is characterized by its small egg shape. This is an item that vibrates when the built-in motor rotates and is ideal for clitoral stimulation.
Because of their small size, the vibrations are modest and the price is inexpensive, so they are especially good for toy debuts.
Love Dolls (Sex Doll)
Many women may not be familiar with the term “love doll” at all. It refers to dolls that are similar to real women, mainly for men to enjoy for sexual purposes.
It is slightly different from a dutch wife, which is more like a real woman. For this reason, many people treat them gently as if they were real partners, not just for pseudo-sex. With today’s technology, many products look and feel so realistic that they are indistinguishable from the real thing.
They range in price from cheap to expensive, and some of them cost over one million yen. I don’t know if you will have a chance to see them in the future, but please keep in mind that there are such items.
Is it normal to use sex toys?
What do you think of what you’ve read so far? If there is an item you are interested in, please be brave enough to step out into a new world. I hope that you have some idea of what you are interested in and what kind of items are suitable for you.
However, some of you may have a negative feeling about using toys. However, it is quite normal for women to use sex toys, and it is a healthy choice.
Sexual desire is one of the three major human needs, and everyone has it as long as they are healthy. And it is a toy to relieve it properly.
And it is not easy to feel the sexual sensation unless you develop it yourself. It is important to develop yourself when you masturbate to be able to feel more during sex.
“Couples are using them all the time to have orgasms for the first time, or to have more orgasms or bigger, harder, wilder ones, and there’s nothing wrong with bringing toys into your relationship and bedroom.”
How to choose an sex toys
Let’s talk about what kind of toys you should start with and how to choose them. There are three main points
- Choose by price
- Choose by function
- Choose by material
These are the three points. Take your time and find the perfect sex toys for you.
Choose by price
The first thing you may be concerned about is the price. Toys don’t have to be anything expensive!
Many of the more expensive toys may indeed have better functions. However, compatibility is more important than anything else when it comes to toys. Based on where you want to develop, the angle and stimulation you like, and the size of the item, wouldn’t it be more of a shock if you buy an expensive one from the start if it doesn’t fit?
Start with a cheap item that is suitable for beginners. Then, when you’ve gotten the hang of it, you’ll be able to choose one that’s expensive and seems to fit!
Select by function
A toy is designed to give you pleasure, so it is only natural to choose one based on its function. For example, if you want to stimulate your clitoris, Egg Vibrators or Magic Wand Vibrators are good, and if you want to stimulate your vagina, dildos or Vibrators are good.
If you’re looking for vaginal stimulation, you’ll want a dildo or vibrators. How and where do you want to use it? Choose the one that best fits your needs!
Choose by material
The choice of material is also an important point. If you are just starting with toys, start with soft materials.
Depending on the item, various materials are used in toys, such as glass and iron. The feeling of a foreign object is very pleasurable for advanced users, but it can also be dangerous in the beginning because it can lead to pain and injury.
The softer the material, the easier it will be for you to get pleasure from it, so choose one that says it is made of silicone or elastomer first.
Cautions about sex toys
They are great toys if used correctly, but there are some cautions. Because they are used on the genitals, a very sensitive area, they must be handled with care.
Always wash it immediately after use to prevent the growth of bacteria. When storing them, keep them in a clean and well-ventilated place so that they do not come into contact with other items.
Also, always use a condom when using items that are to be inserted. In some cases, a Sex Lubricant may be necessary for smooth insertion to avoid injury.
Lastly, when using items for penetration, try small items first. One size smaller than you think you can insert is a safe bet. If it hurts or doesn’t feel good, your toy debut will be a sad one. Choose a toy that is about one size too small. It is better to choose a toy that is a little too small.
Toys are never dangerous if handled correctly, so be sure to read the instructions and learn the basics when you buy them!
Sex toy summary
What did you think? I hope this has given you a positive attitude towards the use of sex toys.
Whether you are masturbating or having sex, using toys is completely different from not using them. It is a happy experience to know the pleasure that you have never known before. Ideally, it is not a question of whether or not to use a toy, but rather whether or not to use a toy as a way to increase the number of options available to you.
Please use sex toys correctly and safely, and have a better sex life.