How many times do you change positions during sex? This is a great way to make sure you are getting the most out of your sex life.
Changing positions changes the angle of the penis and the place where it hits the vagina, so there is definitely a position that feels good for women. Here are some of them.
- 8 Standard Positions to remember
- 5 Kama Sutra positions
- Let’s use sex toys!
There are many positions that you can put into practice right away, and I’ll introduce some tips to make you feel better! Please read on.
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Eight standard positions you should know
First of all, let’s start by adding a little twist to the standard positions such as normal and cowgirl. Even if the flow is the same as usual, adding a few extra steps can make it much more pleasurable!
I will also explain how to do a total of eight other positions, including the face-to-face position, which is popular with women, and the Doggy Style position, which is highly popular with both men and women.
Missionary position
The missionary position is probably the most common position used by most people. Since you can see each other’s faces, it is easy to feel a sense of security and happiness.
In this position, the woman is lying down with her legs open and the man is covering her.
First, after insertion, the woman lifts her hips slightly and opens her legs. This will help balance the center of gravity, and you can then lift your hips.
At this point, you have penetrated deeper than in the missionary position, so try standing on your toes with your legs spread in the M-shape.
You can put a pillow under your waist for stability. This will not only make it easier for the man to move his pistons, but it will also increase your sensitivity since he can reach deep inside you.
The last technique can be used when finishing in the missionary position. Raise your legs and drape your ankles over his shoulders. Pull his upper body closer to you so that he is covering you.
As he falls down, your legs will inevitably come closer to you, and you can finish him off by clasping his neck between your calves. This is a position that allows you to get closer to him and also allows you to penetrate deep into him.
Crazy Conspiracy Theory: The propaganda against missionary sex and it’s branding as “bland” or “boring” when really it’s the first or second best sex position, was done to hinder men and women from bonding during sex
— BROTHER LOBO 🐺⚔️ (@ellobosalvaje) July 21, 2020
Cowgirl Position
In the cowgirl position, the woman sits on top of the man who is lying down with his legs closed. This is the most dominant position for a woman.
In the cowgirl position, the woman lifts her hips and gets down on her knees. If you put pressure on your lower abdomen, your vagina will suck up your manhood.
The more you kneel, the more distance you have between you, so ask him to lift his hips up as well.
Another technique is to use the back and forth motion of the cowgirl position. When you move forward, lift your hips a little, and when you move backward, lower your hips as if you are sinking deeper.
The result is a combination of forward and backward movement and up and down movement (like riding a horse).
Next, turn your hips in a large circle. You do not need to move up and down at this time. Finally, repeat the same riding motion as at the beginning. You may want to lean back a little.
This will be the easiest position to find the point where you feel yourself.
Sitting Face to Face
In this position, the woman straddles the man and sits on top of him while they sit facing each other. It is very popular among women because they can see each other’s faces and the penis can easily reach the back of the body.
If the woman turns around and sits on top of him, it can also be called rear sitting. Sitting is the second most female-dominated position after cowgirl.
The face-to-face sitting position is characterized by its close contact, which makes it easy for the woman to kiss and caress her breasts.
You can move up and down orthodoxly, or grind with your hands behind your back to see the joint area, which is also visually exciting.
Experiment with them sitting all the way up and you on top, straddling them, or you can try you sitting up against a chair and them penetrating from the front. You could also try wrapping your legs around them; this allows you to get even closer and more intimate, and it makes doing your kegels while they’re inside you super easy (and super, super hot).
Standing Position
As the name suggests, standing is a position in which a man and a woman are standing facing each other. The man and woman face each other, and the man lifts one of the woman’s legs up firmly for insertion.
The man lifts the woman’s leg and inserts it diagonally upward from the front of the vagina for smooth penetration.
This is officially called the face-to-face position, and if the man inserts from behind the woman, it is called the rear standing position.
If the man inserts the woman from behind, it is called rear standing. It is easier for the woman to be penetrated from behind because she is thrusting her buttocks upward, and it is also more stable if she puts her hands on the wall.
Either way, since you usually do it lying on the bed, standing up is a great way to break out of your rut.
This is also a great way to break out of a rut. It can be done in a variety of visual situations, such as while watching yourself in front of a mirror.
Doggy Style
The doggy style position, in which a man inserts himself into a woman on all fours from behind, is a popular position because of the feeling of being dominated.
If the woman is on her knees, it can also be done from behind, and both positions allow for deep penetration.
Doggy style. My husband claims he hasn’t seen my face during sex in that last ten years. He’s probably right.
— Samantha Jean🐺 (@SammyJean1970) December 13, 2020
It is a position that can easily reach the portio, which is located deeper than the G-spot, so it is a must for women who want to try to come inside.
This position is also popular with men because it satisfies their desire for conquest, so they will not be turned off by it. If you have never tried it before, ask for it.
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Elongated position
The elongated position is a missionary position in which the woman inserts herself with her legs straight up.
The advantage of this position is that the clitoris can be rubbed. If you like the sensation of rubbing, you can easily get excited.
Also, since the insertion itself is shallow, the time until ejaculation will not be as fast as in other positions. Therefore, it may be recommended for those who have a partner with premature ejaculation.
Seated Doggy Position
This position is similar to the face-to-face position, but the woman sits on the man’s back instead of facing him.
Like the face-to-face position, the penis can easily reach the back of the body, so you can move it around as you like.
In the rear sitting position, the woman is hugged from behind, which makes it easier for the man to caress her breasts and clitoris.
It is also easy to hit the G-spot and the portio, making it easier to come inside. It may be a little difficult, but I hope you will give it a try.
Bending position
The bending position is a slightly modified version of the missionary position, in which the woman rolls over and the man is bent over more than in the missionary position.
The woman’s vagina is turned upward, allowing for deeper penetration.
If you are not a soft person, do not stay in this position for a long time, as it can be a little hard on the woman. You can spice things up a bit by interspersing it with a change of position.
It is recommended to use this position at the end when both of you are in a good mood.
5 Kama Sutra positions
Many of you are probably familiar with the Kama Sutra. It’s an ancient Indian sexual book.
In ancient India, “dharma”, “artha” and “karma” were the three main goals of life. In the second part of Kama Sutra, there are 48 different positions for sex.
Here I will talk about five of them that you should especially incorporate into your daily sex life.
Side-by-side clasping position
This is the position where the man is lying on the right side of the woman. The reason for the right side position is that most people are right-handed, and this position gives them the most freedom.
This position is more of a gentle way to confirm each other’s love rather than a violent way to seek each other out.
Congress of a cow
Bend over as far as you can while standing, and have him thrust into you from behind, with his fingers touching your toes.
Ask him to hold your waist and keep you steady. Try to move your hips so that you can feel it deep inside you.
The Splitting of a bamboo
Ask him to straddle one of your legs while you insert him. Then lift the other leg and place it on your partner’s shoulder or chest. This position allows you to penetrate deeply and is very stable.
The swing
Have him lie down on the bed and climb on top of you from behind. Continue to insert yourself backwards. This is a good position to change the angle to stimulate the clitoris and also to hit the G-spot, which will increase sensitivity.
The position of the wife of indra
In the missionary position, the woman hugs her knees to her chest. Kama Sutra said that this position is the highest form of intercourse! This is the highest position of intercourse!
Let’s use sex toys
Didn’t get the pleasure you were expecting after trying all this? It’s sad and frustrating that you had the courage to go through with it. However, what I would like to recommend to such people is to resort to sex toys.
Sex toys are so-called adult toys that have been researched and developed to provide pleasure. They are items that provide vibrations and stimulation that cannot be reproduced by human hands.
For women, getting pleasure does not necessarily mean reaching an orgasm. However, it is natural to want to reach an orgasm.
If you get into the habit of masturbating to come first, you will find it easier to come during sex as well.
Even if you’ve tried a few positions and felt good, you may be able to get more pleasure that you didn’t know existed.
Here I would like to introduce you to the Egg-vibrator, Electric massager, and Vibrator, which you can easily try first.
Egg-vibrator
The Egg-vibrator is a small oval or egg-shaped item. It is often used on the clitoris, and the motor inside it vibrates vigorously to stimulate it.
They are relatively inexpensive and can fit in the palm of your hand, making them easy to store.
Also, the orgasm you get by stimulating the clitoris is called external orgasm, and even if you have never felt good before, external orgasm is easy to do. He will love to see you feeling better than ever!
This is a very orthodox Egg-vibrator. This is a very traditional Egg-vibrator. It looks cute and is reasonably priced, so you might want to take this opportunity to consider it.
For more information about External orgasm, click here.
Electric massager
An electric massager is an item that generally consists of a large, round rubber head on a thin stick. There is a motor inside the rubber that vibrates it.
The main difference between the Egg-vibrator and the clitoris vibrator is the strength of the vibration.
Originally, it was used as a home massager to relax the shoulders and back for therapeutic purposes, so most of them are large in size and have strong vibrations.
Nowadays, there are various types of massagers that can fit in the palm of your hand, but basically, you should expect a stronger stimulation than the Egg-vibrator.
Fairy’s Electric massager is the most famous of the Electric massagers, and its proven comfort will bring you to orgasm in no time!
Vibrator
The Vibrator is an item shaped like a man’s penis that is inserted into the vagina. In addition to vibrating, it also has a piston (up and down movement) function and a swing (rotating movement) function.
Some look just like real male genitalia, while others look like sex toys. You can choose from a single stick or a double stick to stimulate the clitoris at the same time.
They also come in a variety of sizes, so you’re sure to find one that’s perfect for you. If you’ve never tried coming inside, you might just be able to!
The Vibrator is made of soft silicone, and its strong vibrations and realistic visuals are sure to get you in the mood.
For more information about External orgasm, click here.
Summary
The most important thing about sex is the feeling. Please be careful not to be so focused on making yourself feel good that you neglect to express your affection.
I hope you will try out some of the positions in this article. I’ll be rooting for you to make your sex life better!