Squirting is a common phenomenon in which fluid comes out of a woman’s vagina with great force. In fact, anyone can experience this phenomenon by stimulating the G-spot!
- The psychology of men who want to make you squirt
- Do you know what squirting really is?
- How to make it easier to squirt
- Develop through masturbation
In this article, I will introduce you to a wide range of reasons why men want to make their partners squirt, what it really is, and tips on how to squirt! If you read this article, you will definitely be able to squirt! Please read on.
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The psychology of men who want to make you Squirt
Many women may have come to this article because their partner was more demanding about Squirting than they were willing to be.
Men want suqrting to happen for a variety of reasons, including knowledge gained from adult content and lack of confidence. They want to make their partners squirt! Let’s check our own case first, and then deal with it in a way that suits us.
Influence of adult videos
If he wants to make you squirt because he has seen it in an adult video, he may be mixing it with orgasm in the first place. Therefore, it is important that he understands that cumming does not mean squirting.
If he just wants to have an orgasm, then developing him to have an orgasm should be a higher priority.
For more information about orgasms, click here.
Building self-confidence
If you are not confident in your technique and want to feel comfortable through the visible phenomenon of squirting, then you may want to consider the following; In this case, not only should you practice squirting, but you should also take care of yourself when you can’t.
A woman’s ability to squirt is based on a combination of many factors, including her technique, the situation, and her physical condition. Therefore, there are many things that he cannot do regardless of his ability.
If possible, it is best for him to learn more about how the female body works on a daily basis so that he can understand that the factors are mainly on the female side. You may want to read through this article together.
Simply interested
I’m just curious, I want to try Squirting! This is a vague pattern. Many men will fall into this category.
You may be in the middle of trying to figure out how to make your beloved man happy. If you are a very devoted and healthy woman, please continue reading and learn how to squirt. Of course, you should also ask him to help you.
Do you know what Squirting really is?
Many of you may not know exactly what Squirting is in the first place.
As the name suggests, it is a phenomenon in which liquid is sprayed from the vagina like a whale squirting.
It is a different phenomenon from the so-called orgasm, and in fact, it does not necessarily feel good. Of course, some people find it pleasurable, and many others find it similar to urination.
And if you ask me if everyone can do it, the number of people who have experienced it is quite rare. Let’s have a thorough analysis of what this mysterious squirting is all about!
Is it different from a G-spot orgasm?
As mentioned above, orgasm is completely different from Squirting, which happens when you stimulate your G-spot, but it does not mean that you will have a G-spot orgasm. Squirting is what happens when the G-spot is stimulated, but it doesn’t mean you’re having a G-spot orgasm, nor does it mean you’re having a G-spot orgasm.
Some people have orgasms at the same time as squirting, but a large percentage say that squirting makes it harder to have an orgasm afterwards. Which do you want to prioritize? Let’s think about it.
Not exactly. While sometimes squirting is called a “squirting orgasm,” Melancon says that they’re two different experiences and sensations. “While squirting can occur at the exact same time as an orgasm, some people squirt before they orgasm, some after, and some without orgasm at all,” she says.
Doesn’t it always feel good?
Some people find Squirting to be a vigorous jet like a whale, while others find it to be more of a trickle, and those who find Squirting itself pleasurable are surprisingly often the latter. Many people say that a vigorous jet feels similar to urinating.
This is something that varies from person to person, so you can’t know until you experience it, but there are many people who find it pleasant and many who do not. If you feel uncomfortable after squirting, it is important to be willing to communicate clearly.
Sex is a communication tool for couples. It is not good for either of you to let your ego get the better of you, so make sure you know what you want and don’t want.
Is urine real?
Many people believe that the fluid used during squirting is urine, but the exact mechanism of squirting is still unknown. However, there are some popular theories that suggest that tides and urine are actually two different things.
In addition to the urethra, the vagina has a hole called the Skene’s gland. The Skene’s gland, also known as the female prostate gland (originally a sex organ only found in men), is located between the vagina and the urethra.
It is said that Squirting is a phenomenon in which the so-called love fluid (fluid produced when getting wet) cannot be contained and shoots out from the Skene’s gland.
Does everyone get it?
If you’re worried that you’re the only one who can’t do it and that everyone else can, don’t worry about it!
According to one survey, about 40% of all women have done Squirting. According to one survey, only about 40% of women have ever squirted, and that number drops to about 10% when it comes to those who have squirted multiple times. Therefore, it is normal to have never done it.
There are other reasons for the low numbers, and to duplicate, the sensation of squirting is very close to the urge to urinate. It is said that this is why most women hold back. In many cases, they can do it if they keep going, but they stop halfway.
Every person with a vulva can squirt if they have a strong enough pelvic floor and relationship with their vagina.
How to make squirting easier
A woman’s body is very sensitive, and squirting is greatly affected by the situation and her physical condition at the time. Therefore, there is no such thing as a “sure thing”. There is no such thing as a sure thing.
However, there are ways to get as close to Squirting as possible, and to create an environment where you can do so! Here are some tips and tricks to make your Squirting easier.
First, relax
The mental aspect of a woman’s orgasm, including Squirting, is quite influential. If you are nervous or do not feel relaxed, you will not be able to feel good.
This includes feelings of shame and anxiety, and it is especially difficult to have an orgasm in situations where there are negative feelings such as irritation and fatigue. It is important to create a state where you can relax both mentally and physically.
Pay attention to creating a relaxing environment, such as playing your favorite music or burning your favorite scent.
Dr. Salama maintains there are two types of squirter: the ‘dependent’ who requires pressure on the G-spot and the bladder neck at the same time to reach a satisfying climax; and the ‘autonomous’ squirter who can just lie back and have a blast, so to speak.
‘But she must be relaxed, and confident to let it go,’ says Dr Salama. ‘And it helps if her partner presses on the G-spot.’
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Take lots of water beforehand
If you don’t have enough water in your body, it will be difficult for you to squirt. Water is the source of tides, so drink plenty of water beforehand.
You may be worried about urinating, but don’t hesitate to drink lots of water. Soft drinks, which are quicker than water, are also recommended. Also, avoid drinking tea and alcoholic beverages, as they have diuretic effects. This will help your body store water and make it easier for you to physically squirt.
Being sexually aroused
Trying to squirt out of nowhere is quite difficult if your body is not highly sensitive. It’s no exaggeration to say that a woman’s sensitivity is determined by her mental state!
You need to be fully relaxed and your body needs to be in an excited state. You need to somehow increase the sensitivity of the vagina. If this is the case, I recommend you to use the clitoral method to have an orgasm first.
You can start stimulating your G-spot when you are already aroused, and your body will be more sensitive right after orgasm than it was before you felt it. And the more you feel, the more likely you are to have another orgasm, so you’re killing two birds with one stone!
For more information about clitoral orgasms, click here.
Don’t stop the stimulation halfway through!
The main reason why so few people are able to squirt is because so many people hold back when they feel the urge to urinate. Even when they are on the verge of squirting, they unconsciously stop themselves. If you keep doing that, you’ll never be able to do it.
In order to squirting, you have to open your mind to the possibility that this is really a urge to urinate, and that it’s okay if you leak. It is important to let your mind go and follow the pleasure!
After inserting your middle finger with the belly of your finger up to the base of the finger, bend the second joint and rub it from side to side to find the rough area. This is the G-spot. Use gentle pressure on the G-spot, as if you were applying acupressure.
For more information on the G-spot, click here.
Develop yourself through masturbation
The best way to do this is to learn to Squirt when you masturbate yourself, instead of trying the above during sex! As with orgasms, your body will become accustomed to Squirting after a few times. The more you can do it yourself, the more successful you will be during sex.
Many people use their fingers to masterbate, but I recommend using adult toys. Adult toys have been researched and made to make you feel good, so of course they are more successful than fingers.
Also, adult toys can be used with him, can’t they? It is not uncommon for a child to be able to squirt with his fingers, but not be able to do so when he changes to his own method. However, a toy will always provide the same movement and stimulation, so your chances of success are stable!
Here we will talk about the adult toys recommended for Squirting, such as the Vibrator, dildos, and condoms for use with them.
Vibrator
The Vibrator is an adult toy that is inserted into the vagina. It is a toy that mimics the shape of a man’s vagina, but differs from a dildo (see description below) in that it has a vibration function, a swinging (rotating) function, and a piston (up and down movement) function. The fine vibrations are perfect for stimulating the G-spot.
Some are designed to hit the G-spot, while others are designed to hit the Portio. The best ones for Squirting are, of course, the G-spot specific ones.
Realistic dildo w vibe Skin is a vibrator that is as realistic as its name suggests, with soft materials and a good thickness. It is very flexible, so you can apply it where you want it to hit you.
It is also battery operated and easy to handle. It is also easy to clean. If you have never used an adult toy before, I recommend you start with something as simple as this.
Dildos
A dildo is a model in the shape of a man’s genitalia that is inserted into the vagina and moved by the user. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, but most come with suction cups that allow you to fix them to the floor or wall and move them around as you please.
Once you have the G-spot in place, you can develop it at any angle and strength you like, which is very convenient. They are also great for squirting, as they allow you to focus on stimulating the same area.
Shiny straight dick Dark Brown is very realistically built, yet chic black, so it is easy to pick up. It comes with a suction cup, so it is suitable for practicing cowgirl and Doggy Style positions.
If you do it with an actual sex scene in mind, it will be good to avoid gaps. If you can use this item to practice squirting in the positions you often do, you will be able to have sex with him very successfully.
Condoms
Condoms are an item that we have all used at one time or another. As you know, it is a rubber contraceptive that is placed over the male organ. As a matter of fact, such familiar condoms can also be used as adult toys.
If you choose a condom with warts or ribbed protrusions to stimulate the outside (vaginal side), it will give you an extra spice. You can also choose one with a warm/cool sensation function to further increase sensitivity.
I recommended using a vibrator or dildo when masterbating, but condoms are essential for these. If you choose a condom that has a sensitivity-enhancing function, it is easy to have an orgasm or squirting.
For more information on how to use adult toys, click here↓
Durex extra dot is a safe and secure Durex condom with a protrusion. It stimulates the vagina more than regular condoms and brings you one step closer to Squirting! You can also use it during sex with your boyfriend, so it’s a great item to have.
Summary
Squirting is not something that can be done right away, and each person feels differently, but once you get the hang of it, it can be done with high frequency. And you might even find that it feels better than having an orgasm!
When masterbating or having sex, the most important thing is how you feel. If you are in a hurry, your squirting will only get further away, so take your time and enjoy your development.